I check my calendar and realize that we are well into November and I have had no inspiring thoughts for my monthly blog post. I want to stop writing about grief but cannot seem to move beyond it, especially after watching the American election results!
I feel like the wolf in this November page of my calendar!
Then I get an email from my daughter. She sends me an article by Diana Butler entitled Midnight in America. I begin to read it and come to the words:
It's okay to need to catch your breath after the wind has been knocked out of it. It will take a bit. But we will rise.
The words above come from a book I just discovered in my book shelf. It is a beautiful book by Linda Watson, and it is signed by the author. I have no memory of attending this book signing or meeting the author. But there it is, a gift to me when I need some inspiration!
I leave you with another quote from the book above. It could have been written by the Old Testament Psalmist, King David. I was surprised and delighted when I read the name of the author!





Yes we are sliding into winter , shorter days & more darkness. Hard not to despair when you hear news of the disastrous election down South. Everything moving backwardsš«£You are still so fresh into your grief Elfrieda …. embrace it and ride with it….we understand. I love the quote about the “words”. I am reaping the benefits of that recently from some of my former students. A supportive or kind word can make all the difference!!…..Ruth
ReplyDeleteThank you, Ruth! I have learned about the importance of kind and encouraging words in a new way this year. They are like salve on a wound. Thank you for yours!
DeleteIt’s so hard to find any positive words or feelings today. My long time friend who I rely on for support so often, said to me when she feels, like today, that the world is imploding, she relies on the Serenity Prayer. It helped to get me through the day today. “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the Wisdom to know the difference”.
ReplyDeleteYes, that is a good one, Marge!
DeleteThank you for taking the time to write. Yesterday was a challenging day. Disappointment, dismay, disbelief. But not despair. It felt like someone (who??) should declare a global day of mourning or a state of emergency. It feels rather odd to be geographically so far removed and yet, with electronic communications, so close and aware. A lot of time for a lot of reflection. And choosing words that bring shalom.
ReplyDeleteKamala Harris did a good job in her response. Now we can only hold our breath...and grieve!
DeleteElfrieda, I don't feel so much like the air has been knocked out of me as like the wilted flower you depict here. As an American, enduring a long election cycle and observing the results: Yes, I am exhausted. However, I think of the words of Maya Angelou in her poem, "Still I Rise" --- "You may shoot me with your words, You may cut me with your eyes, You may kill me with your hatefulness, But still, like air, I'll rise."
ReplyDeleteGood for you, Marian! We cannot let ourselves become discouraged!
ReplyDeleteI am incredibly dismayed by the results of the election. I no longer watch news or any of the late night talk shows that I have followed for years. I don't want to see the man's face or hear his voice. Because I can't do anything about it I need to remove myself from it all. I will continue to be kind to people around me and try my best to shut out the toxic noise. I am still incredulous that I have a number of cousins who are in total support of what has happened. Given our family history I cannot understand or condone their position.
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy reading your blog, Elfrieda. Sorry to be a downer but you did encourage me to make a comment about how I felt.
Robbie
Robbie, thanks for sharing from your heart. There’s not much we can do from where we are, but continuing to be kind and not letting the poison get to us is a good place to start. We’ll see where all this will take us. Our neighbours to the south have a lot to deal with!
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