Good Friday comes first, and then Easter. Lent is the time set aside for grieving, and it takes a good amount of time. We have to go through the whole process in order to heal, in order to regain our joy. Donna Ashworth, in her poem Before and After says it so well:
You may find that you begin
to measure your life
before
and after
they left
and that's ok. Just be sure
whatever you do
whatever tiny grain of strength
you have left
that you strive
to fill up the after
as richly
and as beautifully
as they helped you fill
the before.
The before
is committed to memory now
but the after
is totally up to you
Make it count
Mary Magdalene did that. She went grieving, to embalm the body of Jesus, to do what little she could to make life bearable again, and she found joy when she met the risen Lord. As did I at our Easter church service where we decorated the cross with flowers. Below is our pastor and a little girl pinning flowers on the cross.
At home I found joy by doing small things. I decorated an Easter tree by hanging little Easter ornaments on my orange tree.
After our Easter family supper we played a favorite game but used Easter egg candy instead of marbles! That was fun, especially when I could not always distinguish the green color from the blue!
The gift of beautiful flowers is always a cause for joy!
A special Easter greeting , was this photo the little girl on the right sent me. Her father was the linguist with whom Hardy worked to translate the Bible into Kikongo, a trade language in Congo. She is grown up now with children of her own, but has fond memories of Hardy staying with them. This photo was taken two years before he returned from Congo and we got married, and went back for another 15 years.
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I'm breaking my blog break to thank you for sparking memories of our own Easter tree. More April Blessings to you, Elfrieda!
ReplyDeleteThank you for breaking your fast for me, Marian! I thought I was the only one decorating a tree for Easter, but others have shared they do it as well! I love my little wooden Easter ornaments. Hardy and I picked them up in Denmark. Lots of special memories connected to them!
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DeleteSorry, I did t want to delete, only correct spelling. We had an Easter tree for many years. Now our daughter is continuing the tradition!
DeleteIt‘s lovely when the next generation continues a cherished tradition. Thanks for sharing this, Gilbert!
DeleteNice that you have your family with you to make the “after” rich and full. I had a little Easter Tree too. Love the picture of your pastor and the little girl decorating the cross.
ReplyDeleteI love that picture too. Marge. It was a special moment! Don‘t know how I would cope without the love of my church family and my home family!
DeleteI imagine that picture of Hardy was a great, piercing, blessing.
ReplyDeleteI imagine that picture of Hardy was a great, piercing, blessing.
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DeletePiercing is the right word, Shirley!
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I love the idea of using Easter egg candies in menschageradichnicht.
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My grandkids are so creative! They had the idea of using Easter eggs instead of marbles! They always forget the German name of the game:
ReplyDelete„Mensch ärgere dich nicht“ and call it „Aggra“!
I think it‘s so neat that your grandkids know the game as well!
We have always just called it 'marbles'. You taught me the correct name and now that's what I call it. Sometimes my granddaughter teases me by over pronouncing it - we always laugh!
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So funny! My granddaughter does the same! They are coming over today and I will try to teach her to say it correctly. Ha! That will be hilarious!
ReplyDeleteI love this poem…..Donna ASHWORTH says that so well. So happy for you that you have people in your life that help you with the “after”. 🥰
ReplyDeleteAnd you are one of them, Ruth!
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ReplyDeleteThank you Love and Prayers, Rosula
ReplyDeleteThank you Rosula! Wishing you Easter joy!
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely Easter you had, Elfrieda! Thank you for sharing these glimpses of your celebration and the poem. I, too, am grateful for the "before" and "after."
ReplyDeleteYou’re welcome, April! We are both familiar with grief in its different forms.
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