Thursday, 6 June 2024

Let's Celebrate!


The month of June is well on its way and I am celebrating spring! Here in Manitoba it's a rainier, bleaker spring than usual, but it is spring, and I want to say yes to it. I tell myself that the rain will give the upcoming growth the necessary moisture to make it even more beautiful when the sun comes out. I go to my back yard and collect the first harbingers of spring: bleeding heart,  forget -me-nots and lily of the valley. 

 I place them in one of my favorite vases. This vase is quite old and there is a history that goes along with it.It comes from Aalsmeer, a town in North Holland, nicknamed the flower capital of the world! Hardy bought it in Europe in the spring and summer of 1965 when he was working for MCC. It was the summer before we got to know each other. He gave it to his aunt and inherited it when she passed away. There is a crack in it, but someone glued it back together again. I don't know who broke it and who fixed it, but it must have been a good glue, because the vase doesn't leak. It tells me that broken things (and broken hearts) can be mended and made useful again. I share this story with a granddaughter and promise to pass this beautiful treasure on to her some day. 


The lilac bush that Hardy and I dug up from my parents' garden a number of years ago is blooming more this spring than in the last few years. I remember the lilac hedge around my parental home and I celebrate their lives and their legacy. 



I wave goodbye to children and grandchildren who have come for a visit and have brightened my day. They are in the springtime of their lives and my joy and delight! I love to observe how they find their place in this world, and how each of the eight grandchildren has special memories of their Opa. 

Julia, who has been a camp counselor for several summers just recently got baptized at the camp. She told me that she wore her Opa's red and white plaid shirt over her bathing suit and that she found his hearing aid batteries in the pocket of that shirt, so she knew he was with her! As I was preparing this post, the photos below came up on my memory screen. Hardy is wearing the shirt that Julia chose to wear for her baptism! I celebrate this little miracle! 





In case you missed it, on the top left corner of the above photo  is a dragon fly, a special symbol of positive qualities such as courage, transformation, joy and adaptability.

A message from the book of Ecclesiastes 9:7-10:  

Seize life! Eat bread with gusto, Drink wine with a robust heart. Oh yes--God takes pleasure in your pleasure! Dress festively every morning. Don't skimp on colors and scarves. Relish life with the spouse you love each and every day of your precarious life. Each day is God's gift. It's all you get in exchange for the hard work of staying alive. Make the most of each one! Whatever turns up, grab it and do it. And heartily! This is your last and only chance at it, for there's neither work to do nor thoughts to think In the company of the dead, where you're most certainly headed. (Eugene H. Peterson, The Message)

In a Rejoice Devotional, Debora Carpeno writes:  

This life is full of uncertainty and death is inevitable. Yet, in the face of these realities, Ecclesiastes does not give in to despair. Instead it is a call to live life with fullness, joy and wisdom. Amid a turbulent world, and in the face of many choices, we must learn to allow ourselves to be calm, to rest and enjoy life.

Every day is a gift. Enjoy your gift! 




 






14 comments:

  1. What a beautiful collection of spring blossoms! Is it a glass or pottery vase? I love the photo of you waving and, as always, your wise words.
    Robbie

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  2. Thanks for reading and responding to my post, Robbie. You are the first responder this morning! I believe the vase is pottery.

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  3. Thanks for this Elfrieda❤️. As so often happens, your words seem to have been directed to me. That pic of Hardy is priceless as is the dragonfly. You have so many reasons to say “yes” to life. We all do, we just need to be reminded of it once in awhile. Thank you for the reminder!

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  4. You’re welcome, Marge! I always look forward to your comments! Sisterly love!

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  5. Elfrieda, you cherish so many things that I value too, among them passing on wisdom and objects to grandchildren. Your grand-daughter will enjoy the mended vase because she knows the lesson of broken things: One of the most memorable lines in Leonard Cohen’s “Dance Me to the End of Love” speak of cracks ~ “Ring the bells that still can ring / Forget your perfect offering / There is a crack, a crack in everything / That’s how the light gets in.”

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  6. “That’s how the light gets in!” Such an amazing line! Broken things, broken lives, that can be mended and be the stronger for it! Thanks, Marian!

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  7. Elfrieda, I thought of you when I visited western Canada in May and then again when I began planning for a trip to Ontario in the fall. But what about Winnipeg, you may ask. I believe there will be a Mennonite /s Writer conference at CMU next year? I hope so, and I hope to attend. Maybe we will meet in person at last? I love your celebrations of the joys of everyday life and the spiritual disciplines you give yourself to.

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  8. That would be so great, to meet in person! I hope it works out! Both you and Marian have been the best blogger friends I would love to meet!

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  9. Beautiful spring blossoms, loving grandchildren, wonderful memories of a life well lived with a loving husband & children….only one thing you can do….say YES to life as I see you doing waving from behind the lilac bush🥰Always appreciate your reflections in your blogs! What a poignant picture of Hardy….. Love Ruth

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  10. Thank you, Ruth. I couldn’t believe Hardy was wearing the same shirt on that picture that Julia wore on her baptism in his memory. A poignant moment!

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  11. Thank you for your thoughts. Yes it is wonderful to be able to pass things and memories on to your children and grandchildren . I love your lilacs. Hanna

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  12. Yes, the lilacs are especially beautiful this year! Too bad their season is so short! If you take them in they have such a beautiful smell, but they don’t last long inside. Beauty fades, only to be replaced by other beauty. All things have their season and we enjoy them while we have them!

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  13. What a wonderful description of spring!! Also the memories so beautifully illustrated. I always enjoy your blog.
    Helen

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