Tuesday, 2 November 2021

Let Me See Your Face!

November has arrived and with it the end of such a lovely but too short fall season and the beginning of another winter with its sleet, ice, and snow. 
 

A Canada goose sits at the edge of the lake,
contemplating its long journey south ... and I want to go along!



A Blue Jay enjoys the seeds scattered on our deck table.
He's in it for the long haul, just like we are!



I bring in my favorite plants -- the geranium that outdid itself this year and the gerbera that is just full of buds. This season lends itself toward a mood of melancholy sadness but these flowers and the birds by my window will cheer
me up. 


Hardy was given the above item at a craft sale at our church some time ago by a person who was selling handcrafted jewellery. He thought it might be a rosary but the person who gave it to him said it was not.
A relative of ours who had spent time in Greece with MCC told us the string of beads was called a kompoloi or "worry beads". These beads do not have a religious or ceremonial meanning but are simply used to pass away time, guard against bad luck, or, if expensive, as a mark of power or social prestige. Hardy and
I have been using it after our breakfast devotions to remember friends and loved ones who have passed away as well as their families. We simply take one bead at a time, hold it between our fingers and whisper the name we are reminded of. It is strangely comforting. 

We have enjoyed getting together with our friendship/care group for the first time since the coronavirus hit us. I discovered a wonderful storybook for children, written by Douglas Wood, that teaches some profound truths and is beautifully illustrated by artist Jon J. Muth.
I wanted to use it for a sermon I was preparing for church and borrowed it from a friend, who brought it to our care group get-together. We had a delightful time listening to Yayoi, a Japanese Canadian poet, read this book to us. 

             

                                         

The book ends with the following advice the Old Turtle gives to the little girl of the story: "Remember this, little one. The Broken Truth, and life itself, will be mended only when one person meets another -- someone from a different place or with a different face or different ways -- and sees and hears ... herself. Only then will the people know that every person, every being, is important, and the world was made for each of us."

I was charmed by an eight-month-old little girl at church last Sunday, who, when I last saw her, was still so babyish and now has blossomed into this gorgeous, inquisitive, relational little being. She stared at me intensely for several minutes and when I asked her caregiver (the baby is a foster child) why she was doing that, she said, "She wants you to take off your mask. She has a thing about masks."

When I took off my mask, the baby broke into an amused grin and studied my face intensely, reacting to every expression! 
I'm still thinking about that, and how we all need to take off our masks (not the ones to prevent the COVID virus from spreading, but the ones behind which we hide our genuine selves) and become real to one another.
"A little child will lead them."  


 Happy November everyone!

18 comments:

  1. Happy November, Elfrieda! Love the turtle’s advice! The picture of you at the end looks familiar to me 😊.

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    1. Thanks, Marge. That picture was taken at your cottage, and I love it. It will be one of my favorite memories of Al mixing me a drink and telling me "you remind me of your mom when I would mix a drink for her."

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  2. Ah yes the melancholy of winter’s arrival….but something beautiful in each season😌The photos are beautiful reminders of that.
    The book is familiar to me….wonderful message!
    Love your happy face at the end❤️

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    1. Thanks, Ruth! It was a happy moment. Granddaughter Kathryn took the picture. The illustrations in that book are wonderful too!

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  3. Thanks for reading and posting a comment here, Mary Maria!

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  4. I love your ritual with the beads, also the story about taking off our masks to be truly seen.

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    1. Thanks, Dora! We didn't know for some time exactly what the beads meant as we had never heard of that Greek ritual. There's always something new to learn!

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    1. Thanks, Kathy. We did not know about these beads until we received the gift, and discovered our own way of making use of them—a spontaneous gift from another culture to enrich our lives!

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  6. The little child craves what we all crave -- a world where it is safe to gather face-to-face and sing and pray and laugh together. May it come soon. Warm wishes as you gird up for winter.

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    1. Thank you, Shirley, and amen to that wish and prayer!

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  7. Love your Nov post, Elly! Your thoughts resonate with me. Your illustration about removing your mask is wonderful! Your picture reminds me of Kaethie (Kroeger genes peaking out:) Blessings to you, Hardy and your extended family as we once again contemplate "Winter"...❤ your pictures!
    Annie

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    1. Thank you, dear cousin, Annie. So happy you are reading my posts! It’s a family connection, isn’t it? I feel honoured that you are comparing me to Kaethie. Always thought of her as such a lovely person, inside and out!

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  8. Though miles apart, our minds seem to be traveling a similar path, Elfrieda. My blog post theme for next week is about birds too, inspired by Laurie Kehler's Wings of Mercy, spiritual reflections from the birds of the air. And on top of that, my library checkouts include Old Turtle, a classic if there ever was one. I want to read more books by Douglas Wood! :-D

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  9. Thank you, Marian! We are kindred spirits! How lovely to discover people who understand and resonate with my musings.

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  10. Thank you for this post Elfreida - very timely. That we are reminded to see each person fully and remmeber that the world is here for all of us. Love that. Hope you and Hardy are well. Bundle up and keep warm. ♥ mary

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  11. Thank you, Mary. We have a warm house, warm clothes and enough food to get us through the winter. We sometimes forget that this is a privilege, but not a right. Many folks are without!

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