Wednesday, 6 July 2022

Something to Ponder

Those of you who read my blog post in May will recall that
I was excited about an anthology edited by Dora Dueck, entitled 
On Holy Ground, which the Mennonite Brethren Historical Commission had invited her to put together. Dora's book grew out of a wish to write about the "lived experience of women in leadership ministry among Mennonite Brethren." I was one of 15 women asked to contribute to the anthology. Five of the fifteen writers were from Manitoba and four of them participated in a book launch at CommonWord on June 26.

I have been to many book launches as a reader, but never as a writer, which is quite a different experience!





l to r: Laura Kalmar, Laura's daughter (there to support her mom!),
Mary Reimer, Elfrieda Schroeder, Mary Anne Isaak 
(The fifth Manitoba contributor, Lorraine Matties, was unable to attend.)

I enjoyed the book signing. It was fun to chat with people. I met someone I last saw in Congo approximately fifty years ago. I did not recognize him, even after he told me his name. We met only once before and it was an intense experience. 
He had come to Congo sponsored by his church to do Christian service work, but as soon as he arrived he felt that it was not for him. He sat in the rocking chair in our living room and told me how he felt. It was hard for him to admit this, when his home congregation had affirmed and sent him. 
I encouraged him to follow his gut feelings and go back home.
At the book signing he thanked me and told me he had been a teacher and a principal in a Christian private school and was now in retirement after enjoying a fulfilling career. 

Another surprise was not as pleasant. As we were signing, and there were different books on the table, someone told me to hang onto my advance copy because it was not the same as the ones being sold.
I then learned that Mary Anne Isaak, one of the contributors, had been told, by conference leaders (members of the Boards of the U.S. and Canadian Mennonite Brethren conferences who were sponsoring the book), to remove three pages from her chapter. In these pages, in 
contrast to what she had been taught by her church conference, she explains her gradual conviction that people in the LGBTQ+ community are as worthy as anyone else to be fully accepted in a faith community.

Three hundred copies of the book had already been printed and thirty advance copies distributed by the time the message was conveyed to the director of the Centre for Mennonite Brethren Studies. The board insisted on destroying the remaining 270 books  and reprinting them without the offending pages. There was no explanation given as to why they had to be removed.


This decision baffles me and reminds me of book burnings done eons ago. I don't always agree with everything I read but it makes me ask questions and it makes me think. I don't tear the pages out or destroy the book because I don't agree with what the author writes. 

My conviction as to who belongs in God's kingdom is stated here:


20 comments:

  1. Maybe, the reason they asked to remove the 3 pages is because they really wanted people to read them. Because that’s what going to happen. They must be smart enough to realize that šŸ¤”

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    1. You're very right on that

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    2. I think it’s because people are defending their positions/beliefs/convictions and reasoning becomes less important.

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  2. Both parts of the blog are moving. The advice you gave to that young man who'd gone to the Congo was courageous and wise. Bill J

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    1. Thanks, Bill. I so enjoyed reconnecting with him and finding out that it went well for him!

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  3. I love this Elfrieda. So much wisdom, so much sadness, but so, so much room at the table.

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    1. Thanks, Kathy! I so appreciate your affirmation!

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  4. You look regal in your presentation gown, able to rise above the pettiness you describe. My philosophy resembles yours: My job is to love people and let God be the judge. We are all hungry souls needing nourishment and acceptance. (I'm glad I can amp up the font size here as I recover from eye surgery.) Blessings, Elfrida! :-D

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    1. Thanks, Marian, I so appreciate you reading this, even though you’re recovering from eye surgery! I hope your sight will rise to the level of your insight!

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  5. Elfrieda, as I read about this book censorship in the Anabaptist World, I could hardly believe it, especially since I "know" both you and Dora and have so much respect for both of you. I can't believe Jesus would approve of these methods of exercising power, and like your other readers, I rest in the knowledge that love wins and there is room at the table.

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    1. I think the decision is fear-based and requires a level of trust ie:(do we really want to jump off the diving board?)

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  6. Congratulations on your first experience presenting your writing as a published author, Elfrieda. It is always fun talking to readers. Did your co-author consider removing her entire chapter from the book rather than endure this censure of what she believes? What a moral dilemma!

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    1. Carol Bodensteiner7 July 2022 at 06:05

      Elfrieda, I wanted you to know it was me who posted this comment.

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    2. Mary Anne has been so gracious in all of this. She knew the pages were removed before she attended the reading, but she didn’t say anything, because this event was not about that. Both she and her husband were exemplary in their response.

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  7. Yes, hang on to that advance copy.

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  8. Firstly you look absolutely beautiful at the podium and like you were made to be there. I'm so proud of all your accomplishments, particularly to learn unsurprisingly that you showed that man in the Congo grace and unjudgemental support. I am continually saddened by organized religious institutions and their desire to suppress information of any type. Like you I don't agree with everything I read (although to note I DO agree that we need to publicly show our support for our 2SLGBTQ+ fellow humans in all areas of our lives)but am against anyone trying to use power to control peoples access to information and censoring authors or banning books. We have come so far to regress so much. Doesn't sound like the teaching of Jesus at all...I feel Jesus would never day: "I don't love you because you are.."..or even, " I love in spite of"..but rather simply...I love you".

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  9. Thank you, Stacey, for such a heartfelt and genuine response! We all need to be more like Jesus in our relationship with our fellow human beings. The church teaches it but often fails to live up to it like we all do!

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  11. Here is the comment:
    …If we are to achieve our destiny. Then we need more new ideas…and read more good books in public libraries. These libraries should be open to all—except the censor. We must know all the facts and hear all the alternatives and listen to all the criticisms. Let us welcome controversial books and controversial authors. For the Bill of Rights is the guardian of our security as well as our liberty.

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