How wonderful it was to spend a week recently with our Winnipeg children and grandchildren at a cottage near Lac du Bonnet -- swimming, observing nature, playing games, reading, cooking, eating -- just being together and enjoying life!
The owners of the cottage have made a flower garden that is full of amazing creatures. I have learned from our botanist son-in-law, Chris, what to look for in a garden like this:
My wish, since becoming acquainted with this garden, was to see a monarch leaving its cocoon. That did not happen last summer and I was hoping it might this summer. I inspected the milkweed carefully every day but saw no cocoons about to open.
Then this:
Hardy was sitting on a bench close to the cottage, quite a distance from the milkweed garden, when he saw something hanging from one of the wrought-iron hand rests of the bench. He wondered what it was.It turned out to be a monarch cocoon about to burst open! Chris said he could not understand why a monarch caterpillar would cocoon on a metal bench so far from its normal habitat, the milkweed in the garden. We sat for a long time, hoping something would happen, as the cocoon had already changed from green to white. We finally had to go in for supper.


I hoped a predator had not picked it up. I recently heard that the monarch is a threatened species, its population diminished by 80%! Another name for the monarch is "wanderer" and if this monarch survives it will cover thousands of miles to go to Florida or Mexico. The next generation will return to Canada in spring. No Covid restrictions! Life is precious but precarious for this monarch!
I came across a poem recently that speaks to me about all of this:
during this COVID time:
Fred, Helen, Henry, Helmut, Ferd, Mary, Erhard, Alvina
You are loved and missed by many whose lives you touched.






Thank you for mentioning and dedicating this column to Helmut, among others. It touches me. After quite a few "good" days recently, I've had some harder ones, just missing him so much, but glad today to reminded of the thread he followed and how it's woven into the larger tapestry of life.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Dora, Helmut will be remembered. He cared so much for others. Often his blue eyes would brim with tears even as he was smiling.
ReplyDeleteYou snatched a phrase from the song "This is my Father's World" and wove various strands into lovely prose here. I rejoice with you in being able to enjoy reuniting with family again.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Elfrieda, for the botany lesson, the photos, and for including the wisdom of Parker Palmer, one of my favorite poets.
Thanks, Marian! That hymn is one of my favorites and I sing it often when I’m in nature! It just stayed in my head as I wrote.
DeleteThank you for this, Elfrieda! My thoughts have been running along the same line throughout these Covid months. The meaning of life, and in particular, my life. I love the line in the poem, “the thread is what stays as everything else falls away”. Love the butterfly pics and lessons as well. I’ve been seeing lots of butterflies in my garden at home and at the cottage and have planted milkweed in both places, hoping to help these beautiful creatures along their life’s journey, just as others have helped me along mine!
ReplyDeleteI tried planting milkweed and it never took, so I got the other kind of butterfly in my parsley and dill! Thanks for reading!
DeleteLovely reflection Elfrieda. And so glad your time at our cottage was able to play host to your reflections.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Johndavid, your cottage is a happy place for our whole family. We loved our week there, and are already looking forward to next summer!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful reflection Elfrieda.... the butterfly is symbolic for so many things. Beautiful creatures to learn about and watch.
ReplyDeleteHave you ever read FLIGHT BEHAVIOUR by Barbara Kingsover? It'S about the migration of the monarch butterfly to the south and her descriptions are so vivid and mesmerizing!
I think many of us did some life reflecting during COVID and hopefully came out of it a little wiser and stronger. Thanks again for sharing.
Thank you, Ruth. Do you have Kingsolver’s book? Would love to read it
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